I have been so slack and have'nt got a lot done lately, got a lot on my mind at the moment, and feeling like I am going around in circles. Maybe now that m&d have gone again things will settle down. She is so demanding!!! Got the cranks on thursday cos I didnt go out there for the day...my day goes like this, 7am get up get kids ready put madd on bus and hal back to bed by 9, then clean house, Hal gets up at 11 has morning tea and we play outside while I water the garden. Brad gets home at 12 we all have lunch, Hal goes down for a sleep and wakes up at 3 has afternoon tea madd gets off bus jacob and her play, she does homework and they have afternoon tea by 5 they have to be ready to go to thier fathers (baths ect) Hal has dinner at 5:30 and inbetween all that I have to get washing off the line ect ect, where the frig Im I meant to have time to drive 45kms and sit and have a cup of tea??? Hallie will not sleep anywhere but her cot, and her missing a sleep is just not worth it. But anyway I still the bad one. And then yesterday they come in so dad can use the computer which is fine and when he is finished he says right lets go, I said wait I want to show you something (want to show mum the flowers and see if see could make me some) I was looking for them and she says when you find it print it out and I will have a liik later, HELLO your going away for 4 weeks, when exactly are you going to look at them.???
And then she rings at 6pm last night and says so when will you be out for dinner? HUH I say she says we are haveing a roast so when will you be out? Ar we are not coming out...Hallie goes to bed in an hour ... !
I know all in all this does not sound that bad but it happens every time and I am feed up! I am so sick of busting my ass to make everyone else happy. Fair dikem when is anyone gonna give a toss if I am bloody well happy.
On thursday we did go out there after madd got home from school, we were there for 40mins, it took me 40mins to get there and back, so what was the point, and then when I got home I was screaming at the kids to hurry up in the bath cos there dad was coming to pick them up, and I was trying to feed Hallie and get washing off the line before it got wet again. And friday Madd took unfinished homework to school.
Gotta go have a shower and clean up and get down town when Hallie wakes up.
2 comments:
Arrghhh to the demands of family eh. Ya poor thing
Try not to let them bother you. I think you do a great job as a fabulous Mother to 3 gorgeous children. If you have a routine, then they should work around that, not the other way around.
I know exactly what you mean about not interupting sleep routines as you are the one that has to deal with the effects of a missed sleep, not anyone else!
Keep doing what you are doing and let them fit in with you!
XXX Deb
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